Confidence touches nearly every part of life. It influences the jobs we pursue, the friendships we build, and even our emotional well-being as adults. For children, one of the most powerful ways to nurture lasting confidence is through reading.
The Power of Small Wins
Each time a child succeeds at reading, even something as simple as naming a letter, they feel a spark of achievement. Those small victories grow into a belief that “I can do this.” That belief extends beyond reading into schoolwork, friendships, and many other parts of life.
A Simple Game That Builds Confidence
You can turn learning letters and sounds into a joyful, confidence-building experience. Try this simple routine:
Step One: Letter Names
Hold up a book or paper and ask your child to point to a letter and say its name. Celebrate every attempt with excitement. If they get it wrong, say “So close!” to encourage them to keep trying. For each correct answer, give a hug, tickle, or any fun reward your child enjoys.
Step Two: Letter Sounds
Once they know letter names, play the same game with letter sounds. Ask for the sound instead of the name and continue to celebrate their effort.
Step Three: Words
When they are ready to blend sounds into words, make that the new game. Each word they say correctly earns another hug or reward.
Imagine the Results
What would happen if every child had this type of confidence-boosting reinforcement every day? Children would not only grow in their reading skills but also carry themselves with higher self-esteem, stronger friendships, and greater success in school.
Celebrate Milestones Big and Small
When your child reads their very first book, make it a special occasion. Throw a small celebration, cheer them on, and let them carry that book like a trophy. That one milestone can spark a love of reading that lasts a lifetime.